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Best Affirmations for Self Love To Love Yourself More in 2024

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As we go through life, self love is often the hardest skill to master.

During the daily grind, your inner dialogue can become very critical, very quickly.

I know… it’s why I do the work that I do!

As a soul coach, I’ve guided thousands of people from around the world to love themselves more with consistent self love affirmations.

You’re hoping to transform your inner dialogue to one that is more patient and kind toward you.

Within this article lies dozens of affirmations of self-love, to switch your inner narrative into one of compassion and confidence.

Self-love is a journey, and what you tell yourself matters.

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200+ Affirmations for Self love

After over two decades of this work, I’ve compiled over 200 of my BEST self-love affirmations to get you rolling with self-love.

These thoughts have been tested and proven, year after year, to create soulful self-love.

Here are self-love exercises each day help your self-love muscle too!

You deserve love. And as we heal ourselves, we heal the planet.

So, take a gentle, deep breath and let’s get started!

Think, even though I’m imperfect, I love myself anyway.

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Affirmations for self-love spiritual

Spiritual self love affirmations help you on your spiritual path. Self-confidence, self-love and self-acceptance live close to the soul.

You can also send positive thoughts to someone you love to help them:)

A regular spiritual self care practice is important to continue to grow self-love.

  • I am on my divine right path.
  • I am serving from a place of power, clarity, and alignment.
  • I am creating a strong material base from which to serve. 
  • I am sharing my talents and gifts from a place of abundance and joy.
  • I am financially secure.
  • I feel nourished by my life.
  • I am excited to be sharing my life with the right person for me.
  • I am attracting love.
  • I live in the flow.
  • I am that I am.
  • I am caring for my soul each day.
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I am affirmations for self-love

I AM affirmations of self-love are stated in the first person: I am...

Try journaling as a way to grow self love. Here are journal prompts for self-love.

  • I am doing the best I can.
  • I am living a high-vibe life.
  • I am receiving all good things into my life.
  • I am serving from a place of power, clarity, and alignment.
  • I am worthy of love.
  • I am worthy of abundance.
  • I am financially secure.
  • I am committed to authentic self-expression.
  • I am enough.
  • I am love.
  • I am that I am.

Self-love body affirmations

Thanks to messed up societal pressures around body image, many of us feel our bodies are not good enough:(

This makes me mad!

Let’s combat the social conditioning with body positive affirmations that help you connect with a different part of you… why your soul CHOSE your body!

  • Body, thank you for carrying me through the day.
  • I’m grateful for my legs.
  • While my body isn’t perfect, it’s mine.
  • I am caring for my body each day.
  • I fill my body with love and light.
  • I do not reject my body.
  • This body was given to me to help me learn what my soul is here for.
  • I support my body in health.
  • My body is becoming healthier as my thoughts are high-vibration.
  • I commit to love my body more each day.
  • Loving my body is a process and I’m patient with the process.
  • As I heal my life, I grow in self-love.

Self-acceptance affirmations

Affirmations for self-acceptance will help you heal your life. Emotional release techniques help you release energy that’s holding you back.

  • I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
  • When I make a mistake, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
  • When I really mess up, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
  • When I fail, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
  • When I’m anxious, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
  • When I am struggling, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
  • No matter what, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.

Healing self-love affirmations

We need healing, self-love affirmations that remind us that all of our emotions are completely and totally valid.

Take a deep breath as you read these affirmations for self love.

NOTE: Positive affirmations are supplemental to doing the personal work.

  • I give myself the space I need.
  • I feel my emotions because it’s healthy for my body, mind, and spirit.
  • I know that unexpressed emotion stays in the body.
  • My emotions are telling me something.
  • I do not ignore, distract, repress, or judge how I feel
  • I allow time and space to feel.
  • I am healing my life.
  • I am a feeling human being in a feeling universe. 
  • I avoid toxic positivity.
  • I am in a state of forgiveness towards myself.
  • Soul care is part of my healing journey.
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Boundaries affirmations

Affirmations for self-love remind you of the importance of healthy boundaries and that you don’t have to rescue other people or solve their problems. Part of self care is having a closer relationship with yourself.

Remember to B R E A T H E as you’re saying these daily self love affirmations.

  • I do not have to fix people.
  • I do not rescue people. 
  • I no longer carry their burden. 
  • I don’t take on their energy. I cannot help anyone that way. 
  • Their problems are not my problems.
  • I release the weight of their problems. 
  • While I empathize and support, I do not take it on.
  • Their soul will take them where they need to go.

Abundance affirmations

Most of us consciously want love and money, but it’s the underworld of our subconscious that tells us otherwise.

  • I deserve to be paid abundantly for my dedication, passion, focus, and hard work.
  • I release all vows of poverty from this and past lives.
  • I expect to be paid for my contributions.
  • I trust the financial results of my seeding work are on the way. 
  • I know that many people are benefiting from my work and the numbers are growing exponentially.
  • I am thriving personally and financially.
  • I am grateful.
  • My spiritual life informs my professional life.
  • I receive payment for my hard work and dedication.
  • I’ve dedicated my life to spiritual growth and that is consistent with material success.
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Affirmations for victim mentality

Victim consciousness is more common than you might realize and it will hold you back from your soul’s full expression.

Affirmations for self-love and are like tools in your tool kit!

  • I am a co-creator in my life, not a victim.
  • I take responsibility for my life.
  • I am not stuck here.
  • I am free in this life. This is not a victim lifetime.
  • I unapologetically say how I feel.
  • I feel my feelings.
  • As I imagine it, I am creating it.
  • Things don’t happen to me, they happen for me.
Have infinite compassion for yourself and what you've been through.

Self esteem affirmations and needing approval

Instead of needing approval, here are self esteem affirmations to move you to doing a good job and giving what you’ve got.

  • I don’t need others to approve of me.
  • I don’t need my parents, friends, strangers, or colleagues to approve of me.
  • Instead, I focus on doing a good job for myself and God/Source/Universe.
  • As I let go of needing approval, I grow in self-confidence.

Self worth affirmations

Self worth self love affirmations program your brain for your value and worth.

Positive thoughts have good energy!

  • I will not apologize for having needs.
  • I show up for what I need.
  • I realize there’s a difference between want and need.
  • I respect that you have needs to meet as well.
  • I let go of my guilt about needing certain things in my own life.
  • I deserve a mutually satisfying love that is secure.
  • I am drawn to loving people.
  • My needs come from a pure place within me.
  • I am a sensitive person with acute empathy, I will not dumb this part of me down anymore.
  • I deserve inner peace.
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Emotional freedom affirmations

Healing takes time, so be patient with yourself. As you heal, you’re healing the planet.

Part of your life’s purpose is to heal your life.

  • I am healing my heart so I can be free.
  • I believe in my ability to heal.
  • I bring in love and light each time I think of it.
  • I relax all places of tension in my mind and body.
  • I am committing to my highest truth and greatest healing.
  • I see life as an opportunity for personal growth.
  • I am committed to spiritual growth.
  • I am creating good vibes with my thoughts and actions.
  • As I grieve, I am healing my heart.
  • As I heal my heart, the fog lifts.
  • Grieving love, doesn’t always mean the love was right.
  • I am learning that love doesn’t have to be work.
  • I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
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Safety and security affirmations

Here are positive thoughts for when you’re feeling insecure. Part of self care is affirmations with good vibes that raise your vibration.

  • I am safe. I am ok.
  • I am comfortable with the unknown.
  • I am watched over and guided.
  • I am never alone and I feel constant support in my life.
  • I am held through this life.
  • I keep my heart open because I no longer have to protect myself.
  • I give myself the space I need.
  • I trust that the soul is here for a reason.
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Affirmations for perfectionists

You don’t have to be perfect! Nope, you don’t! Here are positive thoughts for perfectionists!

  • I deeply love and accept myself.
  • I am doing the best I can.
  • I am not perfect and that’s perfectly ok!
  • No one else is perfect either!
  • When I feel regret, I deeply love and accept myself. 
  • At times if I feel like a failure, I deeply love and accept myself.
  • It’s OK that I said the wrong thing.
  • I don’t have to say and do the right things all the time!
  • I give myself the space I need to make mistakes!
  • So, I’m letting go of of needing to be just so, and just right, and perfect!
  • I am lovable as I am.

Spiritual affirmations

As we practice and repeat self-love each day, including self-love affirmations, we are changing the neural pathways in the brain.

  • I show up each day for my highest good and greatest healing.
  • I know my life is guided.
  • I am powerful enough to change my thought patterns. 
  • I give my emotions a voice in my life and I am letting them go when I am ready. 
  • I am Building self-confidence.
  • I am loved and cared for by this universe.
  • I have the ability to let go. I believe in my ability to let this go.
  • I’m healing my past and situations that hurt me. 
  • I trust that God/Source/Universe is healing me. Nature is designed to heal us.
  • I believe I am strong enough.
  • I can handle this.
  • I feel protected. I am free from harm and negative situations that hurt me.
  • I am safe and secure.
  • I am watched over and cared for.
  • My life is about healing and growth. I look at each challenge that way.
  • I feel, B R E A T H E, then think high-vibration. Repeat.
  • I am calm and relaxed.
  • I am safe and secure.
  • I am able to soothe myself.
  • I remember to breathe throughout the day.
  • I envision myself washed in sunlight.
  • I attract healing energy.
  • I am no longer a victim.
  • I deeply and completely love and accept myself.

Affirmations for sensitive people

If you’re sensitive to the world around you, that’s who you are! There are many gifts that go with sensitivity. AND, you might be hurt more often because of the gift of sensitivity.

  • It’s ok to be sensitive. I see my sensitivity as a gift.
  • I am able to experience the world in a rich and profound way because of my sensitive nature.
  • When I overreact, I take responsibility for it.
  • I am working on my overreactions, so that I can communicate better.
  • I am working on not being overly sensitive when someone didn’t mean to hurt me.
  • I am attracting a partner where I can be myself and feel safe.
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What are affirmations for self-love?

What’s the point of positive self love affirmations? 

What’s the point of trying, if we try and try and yet, we keep dissing ourselves?

If our self-worth is in the tubes?

Here’s the answer:

Because, while we think negatively at times, act small, and be foolish, we can be our own best friend.

We can find ourselves again.

And we can quiet our inner critic.

Which is VERY helpful because we’re human.

We need self love affirmations

We all need self-love affirmations for our personal growth and because our natural thinking might be temporarily sprained.

Positive affirmations remind us that we are stronger than we think.

Quite honestly, even though I’ve written a book on positive affirmations and self-love, sometimes my thoughts wouldn’t lift a balloon.

Affirmations empower you and give you courage in the moment when you need it most.

Self-love affirmations tell you you’re worthy

And, affirmations help you practice self-love, because sometimes we all need practice.

Mostly, self-love affirmations help you live authentically.

Self-love affirmations affirm that you are worthy of love. It’s your thoughts telling you: You are a lovable and loved person… and worthy of love.

See, we think about 60,000 thoughts a day. And it’s true, we don’t have control over most of them.

Part of personal work is being true to yourself, because what we focus on expands.

For example, if you think about what scares you, you feel more afraid.  

And, when you worry about what can go wrong, you see all that can go wrong. 

If you focus on what you don’t have, you feel like you don’t have enough.

However, since thoughts are contagious, our self-loving affirmations begin to take root over time, provided we’re doing the work on ourselves in conjunction with the affirmations.

And finally, if you focus on who doesn’t love you, you feel unloved and lonely! 

What you focus on gets bigger.

So, you want to learn thinking habits that support and love you.

And you’ll want to say daily affirmations.

The wish of this article is to help you focus in a self-love direction at least a few minutes a day.

And if it’s more, better yet!

Self esteem is part of self worth

Sometimes we forget that we deserve love. Or, we never built that muscle in the first place. So, we badly need self love affirmations to remind us.

Damn tricky childhood that zapped our self esteem!

Darn the things we had no control over. It ain’t easy.

So, unfortunately, we’re hard on ourselves.

We pick on ourselves, point fingers, and wonder how in the world we got it so wrong.

Then, we drop into the rabbit hole of why we said this to that person, and what were we thinking?

And what the heck am I doing speaking my every thought?

Should I never leave the house?

That’s why we need self love affirmations.

And positive affirmations.

Because we are capable of amazing things.

Self love affirmations help with personal growth

So, the promise of affirmations is that you’re programming your subconscious mind.

You’re creating the HABIT of reminding yourself that you’re good enough while also doing the inner work.

Low self esteem can be chipped away as we commit to ourselves, so self-esteem affirmations are part of growing self-love.

In your own life, there are things you need to feel and resolve on your timeline. And practicing positive thinking habits will help you as well.

We’ve all got them.

You’ve heard you feel it to heal it...

This ONE THOUGHT is pasted on my forehead, because it’s that important.  I avoided my feelings as long as I could!

Be aware of negative self-talk

An important note while you’re affirming self love is to be mindful of negative self talk. To read more about that here are Tips for positive self-talk.

What we say when we talk to ourselves matters… a lot.

Final thoughts

Positive self-love affirmations are like a warm blanket. And positive thoughts give us positive energy.

Positive affirmations remind us what we’ve forgotten.

You deserve happiness, inner peace and love.

A big part of practicing self love in your own life is allowing your whole experience.

So yes, affirmations are supplemental to doing the inner work and personal growth. And here’s a good time to mention this…

Self loving affirmations are key, so that we’ll own your feelings and own your self worth.

It’s self-loving to let yourself feel the range of your emotions.  And it’ll lighten your load at some point, because you’re designed to heal. 

And the great news is, as you heal your life, you heal the planet. 

NOTE: Self-obsession and narcissism are the opposite of self-love.

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