Do secure people feel shame and guilt? Definitely! I sure have … and do. Yet, much of the stuff I’ve been ashamed of wasn’t my fault … While some of it was. Sometimes we are ashamed of being different or coming from families that are different, whatever that means. Guilt and shame are part of…
Am I good enough? I am fascinated by this question because … We’re born as sweet little children who believe we’re invincible … we’re good enough for anything. Astronauts, rock stars, healers, lovers … Definitely. Then life slowly happens and we dial it down … And frankly, this is JUST FINE, because we’re all meant…
Is self-love selfish? No … of course not! Because wanting to be a better person is not selfish. Self-love comes from three areas … and it is not selfish to think about them: 1. Living with purpose. 2. Growing our self-esteem and sense of security. 3. Believing in ourselves. Living with purpose is pursuing OUR…